It may not be paranoia. You may be right about what you are feeling about your spouse cheating. There are many signs that can be observed prior to an investigation being started that may help you first determine whether or not your suspicions are right. The following items are some of the signs of cheating that you will observe with both men and woman. If you intuition is telling you that your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend may be cheating, you may be right.
Generally, If you think that your spouse is having an affair, you begin looking for different signs of cheating. Problem is that once you begin to get suspicious, all of your significant other’s activities start to look devious. Here are some common signs that your spouse may be cheating or having an affair.
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If you see any items below that lead you to believe that your spouse is cheating, let our investigators find the answers you need. Then you can make sound decisions whether to repair your relationship or move on and break up or divorce. If your significant other is cheating, you have a right to know. In this day and age, your significant other isn’t only risking your relationship, they’re risking your life.!! And, even though Connecticut is a “No Fault” state, your evidence can still be used to obtain visitation, economic and personal benefits.. Either way… You need to know.
POSSIBLE MALE SIGNS OF CHEATING:
- Your husband or boyfriend sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
- Your husband or boyfriend finds it necessary to put a password on their computer.
- Your husband or boyfriend deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
- Your husband or boyfriend spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
- Your husband or boyfriend installs programs in order to detect your snooping, or to erase where he has been.
- Whenever you walk in the room while your husband or boyfriend is on the computer, they minimize the screen.
- Your husband or boyfriend buys a pre-paid cell phone and doesn’t let you know.
- Your husband or boyfriend sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office or changes the billing in order that the details of the calls are not shown.
- Your husband or boyfriend begins to delete all incoming and outgoing calls from the caller ID.
- Your husband or boyfriend begins to delete all incoming and outgoing calls from his/her cell phone.
- You get calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice instead of your husband or boyfriend’s voice.
- Your husband or boyfriend is receiving increasing calls where the number has been blocked.
- Your husband or boyfriend uses a low voice or whispers on the phone or hangs up quickly.
- Your husband or boyfriend begins to leave their cell phone in vehicle (locked) when they get home.
- Your husband or boyfriend activates a password on their cell phone that has to be entered before it displays any information so you can’t find anything on it.
- Your husband or boyfriend suddenly stops being intimate with you or their normal sexual drive has lowered unusually quickly.
- Your husband or boyfriend has a sudden preoccupation with his appearance, getting a new hair style, tanning, new clothes, etc.
- Your husband or boyfriend leaves the house in the morning smelling like one type of soap and returns in the evening smelling like a different soap, or cologne.
- Your husband or boyfriend joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program when they haven’t worked out in years.
- Your husband or boyfriend starts wearing a different type of underwear or goes out and buys all new underwear.
- Your husband or boyfriend starts taking off his wedding band saying that it has been bothering him lately.
- Your husband or boyfriend becomes “accusatory”, asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
- Your husband or boyfriend raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more then one person at a time”
- Your husband or boyfriend picks fights in order to stomp out of the house and doesn’t return until after you’re asleep.
- Your husband or boyfriend seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
- Your husband or boyfriend has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
- You find out by accident your husband or boyfriend took vacation time or personal time off from work – but supposedly worked on those days.
- Your husband or boyfriend loses attention for the activities in the home.
- Your husband or boyfriend is away from home, either nights or on trips, more then previously.
- The amount of money being deposited into your joint checking account drops off to a smaller amount.
- Your husband or boyfriend is supposedly working a lot of overtime, but it never shows in their pay stub.
- Your husband or boyfriend has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
- Your husband or boyfriend has unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
- Your husband or boyfriend sleeps with his cell phone by the bed or left locked in their vehicle.
- Your husband or spouse shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
- You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give to or receive from your spouse.
- Your husband or boyfriend carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
- Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right. You find strange charges for restaurants at lunch time that never appeared before.
- Your husband or boyfriend has an increased need for personal space or private time.
POSSIBLE FEMALE SIGNS OF CHEATING:
- Your wife or girlfriend sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
- Your wife or girlfriend finds it necessary to put a password on their computer.
- Your wife or girlfriend deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
- Your wife or girlfriend’s cell phone is always on vibrate in their purse when home.
- Your wife or girlfriend spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
- Your wife or girlfriend installs programs in order to detect your snooping, or to erase where she has been.
- Whenever you walk in the room while your wife or girlfriend is on the computer, they minimize the screen.
- Your wife or girlfriend buys a pre-paid cell phone and doesn’t let you know.
- Your wife or girlfriend sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office or changes the billing in order that the details of the calls are not shown.
- Your wife or girlfriend begins to delete all incoming and outgoing calls from the caller ID.
- Your wife or girlfriend begins to delete all incoming and outgoing calls from her cell phone.
- You get calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice instead of your wife or girlfriend’s voice.
- Your wife or girlfriend is receiving increasing calls where the number has been blocked.
- Your wife or girlfriend uses a low voice or whispers on the phone or hangs up quickly.
- Your wife or girlfriend begins to leave their cell phone in vehicle (locked) when they get home.
- Your wife or girlfriend activates a password on their cell phone that has to be entered before it displays any information so you can’t find anything on it.
- Your wife or girlfriend suddenly stops being intimate with you or their normal sexual drive has lowered unusually quickly.
- Your wife or girlfriend has a sudden preoccupation with her appearance, having her nails done, tanning, new clothes, etc.
- Your wife or girlfriend leaves the house in the morning smelling like one type of shampoo and returns in the evening smelling like a different shampoo.
- Your wife or girlfriend removes their clothes after returning home and she has no panties on.
- Your wife or girlfriend joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program when they haven’t worked out in years.
- Your wife or girlfriend starts wearing a different type of underwear or goes out and buys all new underwear., sexier underwear.
- Your wife or girlfriend starts taking off her wedding band and engagement ring saying that it has been bothering her lately.
- Your wife or girlfriend becomes “accusatory”, asking if you are being true to her, usually out of guilt.
- Your wife or girlfriend raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more then one person at a time”
- Your wife or girlfriend picks fights in order to stomp out of the house and doesn’t return until after you’re asleep.
- Your wife or girlfriend seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
- Your wife or girlfriend has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
- You find out by accident your wife or girlfriend took vacation time or personal time off from work – but supposedly worked on those days.
- Your wife or girlfriend loses attention for the activities and chores in the home.
- Your wife or girlfriend is away from home, either nights or on trips, more then previously.
- The amount of money being deposited into your joint checking account drops off to a smaller amount.
- Your wife or girlfriend is supposedly working a lot of overtime, but it never shows in their pay stub.
- Your wife or girlfriend has a sudden desire to be discreet with the laundry.
- Your wife or girlfriend has unexplained scratches or bruises on her neck or back.
- Your wife or girlfriend sleeps with his cell phone by the bed or left locked in their vehicle.
- Your wife or girlfriend shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
- You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give to or receive from your wife or girlfriend.
- Your wife or girlfriend carries condoms, and you and her have never used them since you were once dating early in the relationship.
- Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right. You find strange charges for restaurants at lunch time that never appeared before.
Many times, clients overlook their intuitions. If any or all of the above indicators have you feeling that something may be happening in your relationship, your intuition is probably correct. If you would like to proceed, please contact our investigators, (800) 572-8806 for a free consultation. Or you can provide your information about that cheater and start an investigation now. Submit a case to our agency, fill out the investigative worksheet and a representative will contact you on the same business day.
