What Do I Do When I Think My Spouse Is Cheating?

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Having the belief that your spouse may be cheating is one of the worst and must hurtful feelings one can have. That feeling of betrayal and pain can overtake your well being, personality and actions while attempting to seek the truth. The immediate reaction to the suspicion that your spouse is cheating is an overwhelming [...]

Telling a story using videotape

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As a CT Private Investigator, for just over twenty years now, certain skills are developed that cannot be taught but must be learned. Telling a story using videotape. Many investigators, when working on a surveillance for a Fraudulent Insurance Claim, (Workers Compensation and Liability Claims) and Domestic Investigations, (Marital, Infidelity, Cheating Spouse, Child Custody, Teen [...]

How to Catch a Cheating Spouse CT

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It is a strange feeling when you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, or so I’m told. I have listened to approximately one thousand broken heart stories over my twenty plus years as a CT Private Detective. Each time a potential client calls me or enters my office, we sit down and go through [...]

Catching Infidelity in a Downed Economy

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It’s unfortunate but infidelity is a part of our quotidian society. Men and women alike, everyday are faced with the fear, the suspicion and pain that is involved with the belief that their spouse, the one that they have loved for years, even decades, may now be involved in an extramarital relationship. In the recent [...]

GIVE A CHEATER A SMART PHONE FOR X-MAS

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Here’s a bit of last minute Christmas shopping tip: If your think your spouse is cheating on you, buy him or her a fancy smartphone and put it under the tree. Android, iPhone, BlackBerry – any one will do. They’re all perfect for catching a committed partner with a wandering eye or a penchant for [...]

LIZ HURLEY CAUGHT CHEATING

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Okay, this story was broken by The News of the World, and allegedly they have photo evidence, but you have to PAY to see or read the stuff online, and I’m not paying for it. Especially when other news outlets are doing such a good job summarizing. Apparently, Elizabeth Hurley is screwing around on her [...]

IS CHEATING GENETIC?

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Does cheating have a genetic basis? Is it possible that if you have a specific variant of a gene (a monogamy gene) you may be more prone to cheating and be less faithful in your relationships? A new study has some startling answers. Monogamy gene? A recent study, published by Walum and colleagues (2008), has [...]

IS SEXTING THE NEW CHEATING?

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LAST month, Desperate Housewives’ Eva Longoria and her basketball player husband Tony Parker announced that they were divorcing three years after they married in a lavish French chateau wedding. The AFP reported that suggestions were that the divorce was precipitated by his infidelity, after she found text messages from another woman on his phone. Court [...]

LEARNING TO TRUST MEN AFTER INFIDELITY

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It’s terribly hard for many women to re-join the dating scene after their marriage was broken up by adultery. Women have trouble forgiving men who cheat on them because it is the ultimate betrayal. “My ex-husband made a commitment before God, his family, his community and me,” says Cassandra, a single mother of two children. [...]

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR

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Want to know how to tell if your wife is having an affair? If your wife is acting unusual lately and you suspect that she might be having an affair, chances are she might be. You defiantly don’t want to jump to conclusions and accuse her of anything until you have proof, but there are [...]

IS EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY IN MARRAIGE BECOMMING A FAD?

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Emotional infidelity is the new fad among married couples. Almost every American home has at least two computers making it easier than ever to do whatever you want online without your spouse ever knowing about it. It’s cheap, it’s easy, and it’s fun! You can sit down for ten minutes and learn more about someone [...]

THE NEW MONOGAMY?

The current issue of the journal Psychotherapy Networker has an article titled “The New Monogamy.” Author Tammy Nelson says she wrote this piece in response to statistics suggesting that over half of married couples were not strictly monogamous, and the growing number of clients she was seeing whose extra marital affairs couldn’t be explained away [...]

CATCHING THOSE CHEATERS WITH COVERT VIDEO

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When you think of a Private Investigator catching a cheating spouse or a loved one having an affair, you think of a man or woman sitting inside of a car with tinted windows, with a video camera in hand, burning cigarette in the ashtray and bags of fast food crumpled up on the passenger side [...]

Cheating gone wild

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Am I wrong or is there a whole lot of cheating going on these days? And is cheating more widespread than ever before? I don’t know, but it sure seems like it, and from sources both expected and unexpected. Of course, there are the usual suspects, including students, financiers, pharmaceutical companies, politicians, and professional athletes. [...]

True Story: The Hidden Rig

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It was about midnight on a Friday night. I had just come in off the road from a long rough case. Photographing, diagramming and obtaining witness statements fresh off of an auto wreck with a fatality is never easy. As I poured myself a Gran Marnier on the rocks and had sat into my cushy [...]

True Story: The pick up artist…

So we receive this investigation that a client’s wife may be cheating. We first meet with the client and determined that he has suspected his wife of cheating for some time, however, does not really want to believe it. He states that he wants to hire Cheaters CT because of his suspicions but hopes that [...]

Is Manogamy a Challange for Men?

Babble’s Deputy Editor Jack Murnighan has written an interesting piece for our Special Issue on infidelity called The Case for Monogamy: A Man’s Perspective.  In it, Murnighan describes himself as a single 40-year-old who has “dated more than any good man should.”  In my mind, it’s not dating around that makes a bad man, it’s not picking [...]

The Mistakes That Cheats Make

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Do you suspect that your spouse or your romantic partner is cheating on you? If you do, you may be looking for ways to catch him or her in action. Fortunately for you, this may be easier to do than you originally thought. Why? Because many cheaters make simple, yet costly mistakes in their relationships. [...]

Infidelity and Divorce

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The reason why a married couple is seeking a divorce matters in divorce proceedings. While technically matters such as infidelity do not affect whether or not you can get a divorce in a no fault divorce state, infidelity can affect other matters important to the divorce settlement. Technically, all of the states in the United States [...]

5 Signs Your Husband is Cheating..

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5 Signs of a Cheating Husband Spouses having affairs seems to be a common occurrence in today’s society.  In fact, they seem as if they are increasing in popularity.  Although it is often difficult to associate good news with a cheating husband, there is good news.  That good news is that it relatively easy for [...]