What Do I Do When I Think My Spouse Is Cheating?

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Having the belief that your spouse may be cheating is one of the worst and must hurtful feelings one can have. That feeling of betrayal and pain can overtake your well being, personality and actions while attempting to seek the truth. The immediate reaction to the suspicion that your spouse is cheating is an overwhelming [...]

Through the Viewfinder

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  As a CT Private Investigator, the vow of confidentiality, to my clients, is the most sacred and important part of being a Private Detective. Throughout the years, it has been one of the most common questions that I hear when providing free telephone consultations to my potential clients. That same question again arises during [...]

Telling a story using videotape

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As a CT Private Investigator, for just over twenty years now, certain skills are developed that cannot be taught but must be learned. Telling a story using videotape. Many investigators, when working on a surveillance for a Fraudulent Insurance Claim, (Workers Compensation and Liability Claims) and Domestic Investigations, (Marital, Infidelity, Cheating Spouse, Child Custody, Teen [...]

How to Catch a Cheating Spouse CT

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It is a strange feeling when you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, or so I’m told. I have listened to approximately one thousand broken heart stories over my twenty plus years as a CT Private Detective. Each time a potential client calls me or enters my office, we sit down and go through [...]

Catching Infidelity in a Downed Economy

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It’s unfortunate but infidelity is a part of our quotidian society. Men and women alike, everyday are faced with the fear, the suspicion and pain that is involved with the belief that their spouse, the one that they have loved for years, even decades, may now be involved in an extramarital relationship. In the recent [...]

The Art of Surveillance

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As Private Investigators, much of the evidence we obtain and you as our client rely on for your case is photographic and video evidence. The most common way to obtain that evidence is by surveillance. Surveillance by definition is a close observation or supervision maintained over a person, group, etc., especially one in custody or [...]

RECORDS AND STATISTICS ABOUT AFFAIRS, INFIDELITY AND BEING DISLOYAL

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Outlined under are essentially the most common findings about unfaithful wives. We also supply means and assistance for coping with an unfaithful wife. All resources is often identified for the bottom of the following webpage. Most women are a smaller amount prone to deceive than males. While estimates of infidelity are hard to establish, surveys [...]

GIVE A CHEATER A SMART PHONE FOR X-MAS

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Here’s a bit of last minute Christmas shopping tip: If your think your spouse is cheating on you, buy him or her a fancy smartphone and put it under the tree. Android, iPhone, BlackBerry – any one will do. They’re all perfect for catching a committed partner with a wandering eye or a penchant for [...]

NEWLYWED FINDS OUT HER HUBBY IS CHEATING AND HE KILLS HER

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A newlywed husband strangled his wife of just five months after she found out through Facebook that he had been cheating on her, it was claimed in court today. Michael Roberts, 26, had affairs with two women during the course of his relationship with wife Vicky Roberts, 25, and told one of them he and [...]

TOP THREE REASONS HUSBANDS HAVE AFFAIRS

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I get a lot of emails from wives and girlfriends asking for concrete reasons as to why a man would cheat or have an affair. The truth is, the reasons that men cheat are as varied as the personality of the man himself. Sometimes, it is a personality flaw in the man. Sometimes, it is [...]

SHOULD FACEBOOK LIE TO YOU?

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If you are like most people, you have probably lied to someone at some point in your life, if only as a child. As adults, I believe most of us accept the need for “white” lies to smooth over social awkwardness. But what about more serious lies — like claiming someone did something disreputable, to [...]

CHEATING SPOUSE – THE OTHER WOMAN’S VIEW

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I’ve done a few stories about cheating, but it’s come back up in the news a bit lately and I thought — why not get right to the source and talk to someone that has been in the lion’s den and will be brutally honest about the facts and the outcome. A friend of mine [...]

IS EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY IN MARRAIGE BECOMMING A FAD?

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Emotional infidelity is the new fad among married couples. Almost every American home has at least two computers making it easier than ever to do whatever you want online without your spouse ever knowing about it. It’s cheap, it’s easy, and it’s fun! You can sit down for ten minutes and learn more about someone [...]

THE NEW MONOGAMY?

The current issue of the journal Psychotherapy Networker has an article titled “The New Monogamy.” Author Tammy Nelson says she wrote this piece in response to statistics suggesting that over half of married couples were not strictly monogamous, and the growing number of clients she was seeing whose extra marital affairs couldn’t be explained away [...]

THE IDEA THAT MY SPOUSE COULD BE CHEATING IS KILLING ME

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Relationships are funny things. Two people choosing to be together for a time period or forever in the case of marriage, or so it’s written. Since the current divorce rate is up at around 53 percent in the United States, till death do us part, just doesn’t hold true anymore. In reality, it’s easier to [...]

TOP 10 TIPS THAT WE INVESTIGATORS USE TO MAKE OUR SURVEILLANCE BETTER

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Surveillance is an art form, not a science. Unfortunately many of its best lessons are learned through trial and error. Whether you conduct insurance defense or domestic investigations, surveillance is a large part of your day as a private investigator. The following 10 suggestions will help you conduct a more cost-effective and successful surveillance. 1. [...]

Coping with an Emotional Affair

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Coping with an emotional affair can be more difficult than dealing with a physical affair, believe it or not. Although both kinds of affairs can easily breakup a relationship, an emotional affair is more about companionship, love and the heart instead of lust and physical attraction. The emotional affair is a little more difficult to [...]

Coping with an Affair

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Affairs can be exhilarating, exciting, passionate and romantic. They can also be damaging, destructive, cruel, painful, time-wasting and demeaning. Affairs inevitably hurt someone – and frequently they hurt all the parties involved including children, if there are any. Some affairs of course end happily for the couple – let’s face it, plenty of good second [...]

Jake Pavelka Claims Vienna Cheated

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CT Private Investigator What a difference a day makes. After a subdued Bachelor Jake Pavelka was caught Tuesday by TMZ cameras, saying that he and ex-fiancée Vienna Girardi would “always be friends”, nasty allegations about the reason behind the couple’s split are now coming out. US Magazine already has the cover story this week, which [...]

N.Y. Moves Closer to No-Fault Divorce

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ALBANY — The State Senate on Tuesday, clearing aside decades of opposition, put New York on a course to adopt no-fault divorce — the last state to do so. It approved legislation that would permit couples to separate by mutual consent, a major shift with sweeping implications for families and lawyers. For decades, New Yorkers [...]