What Do I Do When I Think My Spouse Is Cheating?

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Having the belief that your spouse may be cheating is one of the worst and must hurtful feelings one can have. That feeling of betrayal and pain can overtake your well being, personality and actions while attempting to seek the truth. The immediate reaction to the suspicion that your spouse is cheating is an overwhelming [...]

How Do I Obtain Full Custody Using Evidence in CT

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT CHILD CUSTODY IN THE STATE OF CONNECTICUT Many times, upon receiving telephone calls about child custody, the first question that is asked is, “How can I get full custody of my child?” As CT Private Investigators, as soon as we hear that question, we know that our client really means, how [...]

Telling a story using videotape

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As a CT Private Investigator, for just over twenty years now, certain skills are developed that cannot be taught but must be learned. Telling a story using videotape. Many investigators, when working on a surveillance for a Fraudulent Insurance Claim, (Workers Compensation and Liability Claims) and Domestic Investigations, (Marital, Infidelity, Cheating Spouse, Child Custody, Teen [...]

Catching Infidelity in a Downed Economy

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It’s unfortunate but infidelity is a part of our quotidian society. Men and women alike, everyday are faced with the fear, the suspicion and pain that is involved with the belief that their spouse, the one that they have loved for years, even decades, may now be involved in an extramarital relationship. In the recent [...]

12 VALID REASONS TO SNOOP ON YOUR SPOUSE IF YOU THINK THEY MAY BE CHEATING

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Some people feel you shouldn’t snoop if you think your mate is cheating. Other experts like Ruth Huston and Dr Larry Barlow, executive director of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, feel that if you suspect an affair,  you should look for signs of infidelity like “ a shift in the relationship, unusual [...]

MAN ACCUSED OF CRASH THAT KILLED CONNECTICUT STATE TROOPER ARRESTED IN MASSACHUSETTS

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VIDEO OF POLICE PROCESSION ON INTERSTATE 91 SOUTH. LIVE FOOTAGE. Sept. 04–The Enfield man who police say veered across I-91 Thursday, striking a state police car and killing Trooper Kenneth Hall, is in police custody in Massachusetts. Michael Pajak, 32, is still being treated at Baystate Medical Center in Springfield, but has been arrested and [...]

More cheaters handing their spouses evidence on Facebook, other social media

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It was only a matter of time: Divorce lawyers who once dug through trash for evidence of cheating are now trolling Facebook and other sites for signs of “social cheatworking.” More than 80% of respondents to a survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers reported a spike in social media site spying — the [...]

Garth Brooks Named as the ‘Other Man’ in a Divorce Battle

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Country superstar Garth Brooks has been dragged into a bitter divorce battle between a couple in Connecticut after he was named as the ‘other man’ – even though he’s never met the woman involved. The Connecticut husband, whose identity has not been revealed, claims his wife used Brooks’ name to make him jealous and cause [...]

Matt Lauer affair: Caught cheating

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Matt Lauer has had an affair and was caught cheating on his wife with a 26-year old girl. He even decided to leave his wife for the young woman. Today show host Matt Lauer is 47 and, as rumor has it, this is not the first time he’s been cheating on his wife, 39-year old [...]

Catch your cheating husband

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CATCHING YOUR CHEATING HUSBAND It’s unfortunate when you have a gut wrenching feeling that your husband is cheating. Catching your husband cheat can be emotionally draining unless you have asked yourself the following questions: Do you really want to find out if he is cheating? What is your plan when you do catching him cheating? [...]

Types of Infidelity, Part 6: On-Line Affairs

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On-Line affairs: Most people who end up having an on-line affair do so, at first, unsuspectingly. Most times people with an excessive amount of time on their hands or people that have become addicted to using their computers end up having on-line affairs. The affair seems innocent at first and then modifies into an on-line [...]

Types of Infidelity, Part 5: Emotional Affairs

Emotional Affairs: Have you ever visited your spouse at work and felt that their conversations were more intimate with their secretary, co-worker or boss of the opposite gender, than with you even while you’re at home? Did that feeling that your spouse and their co-worker, secretary or boss lead you to think that they must [...]

Types of Infidelity, Part 4: Separating Impulse Infidelity and One Night Stands

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Impulse Infidelity: is a bit different from the normal affairs most people are accustomed to. They are not one night stands; they are not relationships with adulterous partners. They are not even affairs of the heart. Impulse Infidelities are actually unique enough that they don’t occur that regularly and do not occur to most people, [...]

Types of Infidelity, Part 3: Separating One Night Stands and Impulse Infidelity

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One night Stands: Isn’t it funny how people that end up having a one night stand or an impulse infidelity never do so when they are with their spouse or significant other? Since the cheaters so truly believe their excuses or reasoning for their errors in judgment, and because the affair always occurs for reasons [...]

Types of Infidelity, Part 1: Long term relationship with adulterous partner

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This article is one in a series of seven types of infidelity. Please check in daily to read about the other types of infidelity: One Night Stands, Impulse Affairs, Emotional Affairs, On Line Affairs, Long Distance Affairs, Addiction to Pornography A long term relationship with an adulterous partner. Many times when one spouse or significant [...]